Posted 11-18-19 Tis that season again at the Applegate house. We had many a great Christmas season as a family living through the 1970’s and 80’s. My son, a HS senior, is the biggest Christmas evangelist at the house although we all love everything about the holiday. Our decorating kickoff yesterday got me thinking of…
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Have an Extra Sling Laying Around?
Posted 11-15-19 What a busy Friday it will be heading into a less busy weekend! 🙂 Tonight I will run by and see mom on the way to watch a high school football game between my new hometown Bolivar Liberators and the perennial state champion Webb City Cardinals. Bolivar is undefeated and, on paper, matches…
Those Kicks Were Fast as Lightning!
Posted 11-14-19 Let’s set the mood with this short, semi-offensive, culturally appropriated video: Link1 Most of you don’t know me well, but to those who do, did you know I took martial arts classes in high school? I was probably about as good at it after several months as I was at piano after 2…
From Glass Houses
Posted 11-13-19 First let me say that I do NOT believe in Karma. In my humble opinion, there is no impersonal force ruling situations to right the universe somehow. It defies logic and, frankly, is doing a terrible job had it been true. Lots of bad things happen all the time with no obvious repercussion….
My Life in Outline Form
Posted 11-12-19 I had a great childhood. The American Dream was alive and well Ball games, family trips, collecting arrowheads, laughter and tears The Booming Eighties had the best of times and the worst of times Prosperity yet a rough divorce, but never alone Two Homes, Two Families: finding a brand new normal I was…
Back to the Foxhole: Alzheimer’s Puts Veterans on the Front Lines Again
Posted 11-11-19 If there are two things I want you to gobble up from this article, it is simply: I love and appreciate veterans. I hate Alzheimer’s Disease and related dementias. First things first. I am sorry if this seems cliche, but if it does it is only because most share my sentiment: Thank you…
F.A.C.E.T.
Posted 11-8-19 (Note: I like dates that are covert math problems… 11+8=19. I know…I am a tad odd…) In the multi-faceted mess of dementia, it is easy to completely miss anything good in the situation and just sit by and be sad. I get it, I really do. I tend that direction all of the…
Cut Yourself Some S.L.A.C.K.
Posted 11-7-19 I had a great visit with mom yesterday. She was in good spirits and was even a bit more verbal than normal. We visited a while, watched some Andy Griffith, laughed some, then I had to go. She squeezed my hand and tried to get me to stay a little harder than normal….
Mom: The Self-Taught
Posted 11-6-19 Preface: I am as far from Mom’s boss than I could ever be…even now. Mom worked outside of the home off and on, but more steadily when her kiddos required less supervision in our teen years. As I have mentioned in previous articles, she also worked for temp agencies so she would have…
It is the Little Things…Like Syrup
Posted 11-5-19 Mom had another great day yesterday. I hung out for a couple hours over supper. She was happy, smiled and said several strings of words. Sometimes it is the little things that we miss that are the best, or the worst. I was just thinking again how much I missed her homemade pancake…